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作者A級黑豬肉
If you just said it to yourself that "I'll not allow my daughter to become a sex worker", then it is your golden rule.
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Yes, which is why the question people supporting prostitution should ask is "would I want my daughter doing this and why or why not?"
It's not "I don't want my daughter doing this so neither should you let your daughter."
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作者A級黑豬肉
The conflict I'm talking about is when you try to give others the same value as yours, it is not golden rule anymore. Everybody has different believes and values to themselves, so you cannot force your believe on others, it is just as simple as that. So I'm merely talking about how this forum member act, imposing their own believe into others which they have no prove to be right.
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Forcing beliefs onto others is a strong accusation. People are just offering their views on prostitution. Condemning an act is not forcing people not to do it.
Regardless, there is no conflict in the golden rule stated. You keep repeating that people have different values but fail to grasp the very concept of the golden rule....it
is based on people's own values.
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作者A級黑豬肉
Now, you're mixing "promoting their love one to become a sex worker" and "mutual to sex worker". I'd admit that not many parents will force their love one to become a sex worker, but as the moral standard become liberated, a lot more people will not demoralize sex worker.
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Not sure where you got that from. All I said was no parents (loving ones, at least) would want their daughters to be whores but nothing of forcing them to. Remember I said if the undergrads are fine with their daughters being whores, then it's nobody's business. If not, then they, according to their own values, believe it to be wrong for one reason or the other. That view on value is just similar to mine, but not mine.
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作者A級黑豬肉
That prof is a second-wave feminist and certainly a pro-sex feminist. If you know nothing about these, stop being childish to say they have psychological problem. I choose my believe to be a patriarchy, so I really don't care what they think. But it is a thought you should respect. Golden rule has conflict when it is used on other people rather than yourself and you just got yourself an example here. If you still don't know where the conflict from, then it's your own problem.
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Being whatever kind of feminist is irrelevant. There's a significant number of feminists see prostitution as men's way to degrade and objectify women and are highly against it, so I wouldn't use that card to rationalize prostitution, much less putting emphasis on what type of feminist she is as if that was the main focus of the entire feminist movement.
Mutual human sex is based on spiritual connection (love) or just good old fashioned animal instinct (spread sperms, mate with the alpha male).
Of course, money has a way of making people do things they absolutely loathe, things they believe to be wrong, and still make them convince other people they are fine with it.
Your professor may very well be as liberated as she seems to be, but you can only know what she really thinks if her loved ones are involved. Otherwise, who knows, she may just be defending it for the sake of securing her extra source of income.
Again, I stress that if she is completely at ease with her daughter being a whore, then she truly believes prostitution is fine. If not, well there's your answer.
While you're at it, ask yourself the real reason you wouldn't want your daughter to sell sexual favors. Simply because the job doesn't pay well for the effort? Have a hard time believing a father would actually see his daughter's honor in a purely capitalistic way. You're not one are you?
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作者A級黑豬肉
It's just like who wants their children to become homosexual here on the forum? I bet less than 5%. However, homosexual is not a psychological problem anymore (as it was earlier in the 20th century). If your kids are homosexual, accept it. If your kids are sex worker? So what? Accept it if your kids are over 18!
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Didn't know people are gay by choice.