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作者cc0426
小弟覺得浣熊大大您既然還粉愛她,那您真的要試著去挽回她才對,幹麻如此的輕易放手呢....?不試著去挽回怎知結果呢...?小弟認為浣熊大您真的要試著去挽回讓女方知道您有多麼的在乎她,喜歡她....!若您女友對您還有眷戀的話,我想您或許還有機會的.....!加油.........!
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我覺得這不是輕不輕易放手的問題，當她心已經不在你身上了，你進的越多，只是把她推的更遠而已。而且樓主和女友之間的情況只有他自己最清楚，樓主一定是有某種確切的線索才會做這樣決定的。在這種情況下，反而以退為進會好一點。一方面讓自己不要一下子太過沉浸在痛苦之中，另一方面也留下未來可能的任何機會。
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