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作者班主任
重點還是放在識人上面
基本上男的把持的住 70%都不會有問題
就怕男的把持不住 有異性沒人性
而且更慘的是讓他太方便....
這也是為何女友被哥們搶的事情會層出不窮
其實女方在遇到這種事情
總是會有些徵兆
就端看當事者能不能適時抓到
另外女方也不可能馬上就會決定
畢竟跟原本男友的時間較長
若沒有特別的爭吵或不合的現象
女生都會經歷一段很常的猶豫期
此時 第一重要就是能不能抓到女方的不對勁的地方
另一方面
就要看第三者還有沒有點人性

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第三者的想法通常是這樣:
我比他更優秀不忍妳再繼續受他的荼毒,讓我來解救妳於水深火熱之中吧,就算受盡世人唾棄,我也無怨無悔 
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