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觀察是很重要的一步
平日可以去觀察路上的行人,觀察周遭的朋友
看他們的談吐,看他們的行為,還要注意跟他們對話的人是如何反應
看久了,就會注意到說什麼類的話,可以引起更多人的對應,會引起別人的笑容

久了就會知道什麼情況下,該說什麼樣的話,知道面對喜歡的人要用什麼樣的態度
知道她那些反應,是高興,還是不高興;知道她期待的生活是什麼等等等

恩恩。是該多用點心在這方面,平時哈啦慣了都是言不及義,實在要檢討一下
以後要多觀察其他不同類的人,就算沒有和他們談太多也應該聽多一點才對。
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